A lesson from the school called LIFE
"When you judge someone, you don't define them, you define yourself." -Unknown
What would people think about me? What would they say?
Aren't we all confined inside the boundaries of people's opinions about us? Every step we take in our lives is affected by people's views about us. Their judgements and their critical thoughts always run in our minds. Our life choices, reflect these opinions and restrict us from following our heart. But, are we really answerable to them, about our life and about our wishes?
No. We are never answerable to anyone for how we want to live our life. We let ourselves down when we justify our decisions. Every time we provide them a reason, we doubt our own self. By giving them what they want, we continue disappointing ourselves. When we don't speak up, when we don't stand up, we betray ourselves. We give them a chance to question us and pull us down.
The choices we make and the kind of life we live is wholly virtuous if we live it truthfully. As long as our alternatives don't hurt others' sentiments, we're playing it just... Everyone has the right to follow their heart and stand up for themselves. If seeing you look after yourself and raising your voice makes other's think that you're answerable to them, then they are highly mistaken... you're not!
Often we forget the difference between expressing our views, staunchly believing them and not respecting others' perspectives. People will respect you and your values as long as you respect theirs. Everyone is free to live their life their way and believe in what they want to. But, they're never free to disrespect someone's beliefs...
As a writer, there were several times when I'd hesitate to show people my work... thinking about what would they say... how will they react... will they understand my point of view... or I'd disrespect theirs? But, I found the answers to all these questions within me. That, as long as I tenuously present my viewpoints, without disrespecting others, I'd be playing it fair and just. As long as I accept people and their ideologies without judgements, I can expect the same in return...
What matters is not what people think about us, it is what we think of ourselves.... Truly a very fascinating one Vedanshi❤💖
ReplyDeleteVery true Moksha! Thank you so much ❤
Delete👌🏼👌🏼perfectly written about effect of others judgment on our life.
ReplyDeleteWhy we dont act like we want, but why we act as someone other want
Thank you so much!❤
DeleteWow what an amazing work Vedanshi! We should not care what others think, you define your ethics and values. What you think of yourself is much more important than what people think of you. Beautifully penned. ❤️💯
ReplyDeleteOur views about ourselves matter the most! Thank you so much! It means a lot to me🙌❤
DeleteYou've written this so perfectly! In the end what matters is you. If you feel its right and it doesn't hurt others, you should do it
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DeleteIf you are going to respond to your critics then getting a response like that should be your goal.rather than beating the hatters back with insult, win them back with sincerity.most people don't want to be convinced that your work is wonderful they just want to know how do you care
ReplyDeleteYour words have really helped me change my perspective towards critics... thank you so much 🙌
DeleteYou've talked about a very concerning issue that not everyone notices, and you've got your point across well ��
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DeleteGreat work vedanshi , keep it up.
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DeleteVery informative 👏👏
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DeleteWowww Broo you’ve perfectly described how ppl judge keep it up girll♥️ Lots of love ❤️
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DeleteGreat work Vedanshi
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DeleteSuperb beta
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DeleteSo true. Perfect!💯❤️❤️
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DeleteWell written 💕
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DeleteVedanshi you r great working & so true perfection👍
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DeleteThe question is why others opinion becomes our way of living and thinking? Everyone is saying live life to fullest, but when we start doing so... 😅. Excellent work girl! And the way you expressed your writing is simply decent 💙
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DeleteJulie, you've understood what I've been trying to explain! Thank you so much for your support ❤❤
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ReplyDeleteKeep up the good work.
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DeleteVery true dear
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DeleteVery beautifully penned!!💖
ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing work... keep it up!!🎆
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DeleteThis filled my way with inspiration🍁
ReplyDeleteMeans a lot to me! Thank you!!
DeleteSo beautifully written vedanshi
ReplyDeleteYou always rock it with your blogs
Keep blogging up..
Thank you Prity❤
DeleteAm glad that I read this!!!🍃
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DeleteAwesomely written vedanshi keep up such good work.
ReplyDeleteWow with every post you are growing. Keep it up
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! You, my readers are the actual ppl who are witnessing my growth❤
DeleteWell written 😍♥️
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DeleteVery well written 👌👍
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DeleteA very fascinating one❤️✨💕
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DeleteIts the way we want to live our life by our own rules and not by others opinions!
ReplyDeleteVery beautifully crafted the most important point in a delicate manner.
Keep up the good work vedanshi!🌝
Thank you so much Jeet! 🙌🙌
DeleteBeautifully penned Vedanshi
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No need to think of what others think about you
You got every point crafted alluringly
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DeleteYou penned so beautifully💯❤
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DeleteVedanshi, a post it note on your study table says "People go but how they left always stays"... keep reading and inspiring yourself and never stop believing in yourself by people's assumptions about you❤️
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! This will keep on inspiring me❤
DeleteExcellent! 👏👏👏
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ReplyDeleteThis is so inspiring!! Not changing your own self when many people around you want you to do so is a really tough job... but it's the most relieving one.. Keep up the good work Vedanshi💖
ReplyDeleteThank you so so much❤❤
DeleteMany people would come in one's life that would maybe be jealous of his/her success. And therefore would force the person to change, but not changing yourself at such a time is real success. This made my way Vedanshi👍💟
ReplyDeleteThat is what success is..! Thank you ❤
DeleteSuperb vedanshi
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DeleteYou choose the correct words for the situtaion💯kudos🎺
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Vraj❤
DeleteYet another wonderful write up.
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DeleteIt is your own opinion about yourself that matters the most.... And you have illustrated this so perfectly👍 Keep Up The Good Work💫
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DeleteVery Well said !! Kudos to you & your thinking at such young age. Keep up the good work !
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! It means so much to me❤
DeleteEach of your write up is a unique one, and this one has maintained that standard! Keep it up!
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